Understanding Men Articles

A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence, warmth and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the wrong impression, they frequently guard their smiles. While this approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the wrong message that...

This woman is every man’s worst fear. This type of woman is whiney and frequently verbalizes how desperate she is to get married. What is so frightening about this type of woman is that men can’t often identify her until they are well into a relationship. Initially, this type of woman appears...

1. Why should I remind you that “I love you?” I already told you once.
   
2. I’ll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life.
   
3. I hate arguing with you. I’d much rather find a compromise.
   
4. I love long hair. Sorry, but I do.  

In my counseling practice, I often work with clients who have a deep fear of commitment. These individuals generally say that they want to be in a loving relationship, yet they keep picking “the wrong people.” Susan, 38, sought my help because she was in two relationships at the same time. This didn’t feel right to her, so she...

I’m often asked by women how they can tell if a man is good for them. Usually what they want to know is how they can make sure they don't pick someone who is going to hurt them, again. In an attempt to avoid having another man turn out to be a loser, many of my clients try and look for...

Many men and women know the definition of insanity (doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result) and in spite of this knowledge, they continue to date or marry the same type of person while expecting...

I sell an eBook. In fact I sell four of them. They're for women to help educate them on what does and doesn't work in regards to relationships with men. With each eBook, I offer a free 15-minute coaching session. Now I didn't have any idea of what these women who would be calling would want to talk to me about. I assumed each session would be different. To my surprise, and my assistants, I can tell you what nearly 90% of these sessions consist of. It goes like this....

When it comes to fighting and disagreeing with men, women frequently make a critical mistake which ends up causing them to feel hurt and lonely. When I see a female client for relationship advice, I frequently encounter...

Here’s a really simplistic way to evaluate men. Let’s just put men into two categories. One group of men we’ll call fabulous and the other will be those that are strong (steady). Realize with all things, this isn’t to say that there are men who are...

Actually, it’s pretty simple, but most women have the hardest time understanding men. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted. How many times have men said to their wives, “If you would just trust me.” Many men wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something so seemingly simple. The answer stems from...