The Women Men Avoid

There’s a reason why men leave and it’s to do with the kind of woman they’re with. The woman men avoid may be high maintenance, clingy and fake. So why is a guy with her in the first place?

As most or all women know, men aren’t perfect. They can easily be dazzled with a bright smile, gleaming white teeth, perfect hair and a great figure. However, if a guy finds himself in a relationship with a woman who is high maintenance, clingy or fake, he soon finds a way out of it.

You see, the glamour of the woman soon wears off. Once a man sees past her pretty exterior, he soon realises that with some women, there’s nothing inside. So he has a glamorous girlfriend with no conversation, or who’s a total witch. Or she may only utter baby talk which can get old fast.

Another type of woman is the clinger. She won’t let her man out of her sight! So if a guy winds up with a clingy girlfriend, he’ll try to find a way out of the situation. That’s another reason why men leave.

A woman who is fake is never happy with herself and is always aspiring to be somebody she’s not. She may think that looking great is what’s important and then is disappointed when her boyfriend breaks up with her because she doesn’t understand why.

Although men may be briefly seduced by a gorgeous exterior, they soon discover if the woman is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. And if she isn’t, if her appearance is just window dressing, men will soon leave.

Despite their fantasies, men would prefer a woman who is good at putting her heart first, a head of any man rather than a ravishing beauty who doesn't know how to properly manage a man. He wants someone he can talk to, someone who wants to have fun with him and someone to be there for him.

If you asked a man why he was leaving his beautiful girlfriend, he may not consciously know, except that it doesn’t feel right to be with her. But deep down, he realises it’s because she’s not who he thought she was on the inside. He was seduced by her dazzling outward appearance and became disappointed when he realised she was just an empty shell.

There is a reason why men leave and that’s because of the kind of woman they ended up in a relationship with. They didn’t expect the gorgeous girl to be high maintenance, clingy or fake. They expected her to be just as beautiful on the inside as she was on the outside.


 
Copyright by Bob Grant, L.P.C. 2006. All rights reserved. No part of this article may be used or reproduced in any manner without written permission.

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