What Do Men Really Want?
What do men really want? Just about every woman in the world would like to know the answer to this question. It can be hard at times for women to work out what men want, as sometimes they seem to say one thing and then do something totally opposite!
First of all, men want someone to love and respect them. They’d like a woman who knows how to take care of herself, who is clean and smells nice. That doesn’t mean you have to reek of perfume or pile on the makeup, but it does mean a clean face and hair that doesn’t look like it needs a good shampoo. Taking care of yourself means that you respect yourself and like who you are.
Men also like women they can have a conversation with. So don’t play dumb hoping to win his approval by pretending he’s a big strong man and you’re just a silly little girl who doesn’t know a thing. If this strategy works at all, your guy will soon grow tired of not being able to have a real conversation with you.
What men want is a woman they can confide their hopes and dreams to and feel safe that she won’t make fun of him. They also want someone they can have fun with, but someone who they can have a serious conversation with as well.
Men would like to find that special someone they can settle down with. Since women want the same thing, deep down there doesn’t seem to be that much difference between men and women.
What men want is someone they can grow old with but who will let them be themselves. They definitely don’t want someone who nags!
Men would like a woman to be their friend, as well as their significant other. A woman who’s real and is happy with who she is. Someone who’s an equal partner in the relationship and isn’t afraid to speak up. What men want is a real partnership with a woman, someone they can love and start a family with.
As you can see, it looks like men want the same thing women do. However, sometimes men may have trouble expressing what it is they want, which is why women become confused.
So the next time your guy doesn’t seem to know what he wants, don’t panic. If you’re a real, honest person who takes good care of herself and shows your significant other that you love and respect him, he will most likely be able to let you know what he does want.
