Are you wondering why your ex isn’t calling you back? If you’ve broken up recently, you may have decided that you’re interested in getting him back, but he’s not returning your calls. So what can you do about it?
First, you need to think about how you contacted him. If you left a phone message, did you rant and rave at him and blame him for the break-up? Did you leave seven messages on his answering machine in one day, each angrier than the last? Or did you bombard him with text messages, demanding that he call you urgently?
Leaving angry phone messages for him probably won’t help you succeed in getting him back. If you want to make up with your ex, you need to talk to him first. And who wants to ring their ex-girlfriend after receiving screeching messages on their answering machine?
If you’re guilty of the above behavior, then make a vow to stop it right now. Instead, give your ex a few days to recover from all those phone calls and text messages and so that you can plan your next move.
Now go back over your relationship and think of something nice that he did for you. Once you know what it is, and you know you can talk to him or leave a message without sounding angry, you’re ready to call him because most men stop calling because they're overwhelmed.
It's there way of punishing a woman. It's not fair, but the longer you let him stay upset over a silly fignt, the more likely the relationship will suffer or even end.