3 First Date No-No's

It can be exciting when a guy you’ve had your eye on asks you out for a date. You want to create a good impression, but at the same time you may feel nervous because you don’t want to make any mistakes. After all, if the first date goes well, there may be many others to follow. Here are three first date no-no’s so you know what not to do!

1. Meet At A Public Location

Traditionally the guy picked up the girl at her apartment or her parent’s house, but these days it’s safer to meet in a public location, such as the cinema, restaurant or coffee shop. The reason you don’t want him to pick you up is you really don’t know much about him yet. What if he’s actually a scary stalker or if it turns out you have nothing in common with him and he’s boring as well? The last thing you’ll want is for him to know where you live!

2. Don’t Run Late

Another mistake is taking too long to get ready for your first date and keeping the guy waiting - and waiting. This is especially important if you’re meeting him at a pre-agreed location. If he’s waiting there and you’re running very late, he may think you’ve stood him up! And when you finally turn up, he may have already left and then you’ll be the one waiting on your own. So give yourself plenty of time to get ready, and make sure you’re punctual or even a few minutes early.

3. Don’t Talk Too Much

Another mistake to make is to talk too much during a first encounter. While being a good conversationalist is appealing on many levels, it often gives men the wrong impression. Remember this - a man is bonding with you when he is talking. He's not bonding when he's listening. Even though you might feel that you are being entertaining and completely charming, let him do most of the talking, even if this means there isn't much communication at all. Follow his lead. Your goal is to simply get a second date, not determine if he's going to be a good husband.

If you follow the above advice, you stand a good chance of making a great impression on your first date and the others that may follow!